Friday, 21 November 2014

CLASHING EGOS

      It is easy to say anything to anyone and not care about them. Days don’t seem to end without the text of that someone. The hardest part of getting close to someone is the silence that comes from the other end after a fight. Close relationships don’t need a name, they all are the same. There is something different about the relationships where you are attached to someone by heart, by name or by blood. They are all the same because the person is so close to you that a day without them seems like someone taking out all the life from you. And when two egos clash and stay away waiting for the first step forward from the other end, they do nothing but kill both of them inside. We all face this in some relationship which we share with someone who eventually becomes special to us in our lives.

    Mom upset and not talking because you misbehaved, angry at dad because he hit you, a fight with your brother/sister, when you fight with your lover/ husband/ wife, may be a small argument with your close friend/best friend or that unnamed relationship that we share. Any of them when face the egos and have only silences that don’t speak and eyes that don’t meet, it’s better for one to go down open the lips and speak to sort out.